Infidelity is bad behaviour! When two people are in a relationship they commit to each other and if a person is unhappy in a relationship then the most appropriate route is to talk through the problems and concerns. If however a person strays towards betraying their partner either be it by starting an affair and having sexual intercourse with another, or entering a chat room and flirting online or it could be displaying affectionate behaviour towards another person – this is infidelity.
Infidelity can cause pain and distress. Although everyone has different views on it, then unless you find your self in that situation I do feel it is hard to be 100% guaranteed on how you would feel.
The website I found has huge amounts of information on how to spot an affair, although after reading the article I can see how some people can ‘jump’ to incorrect conclusions regarding their partners behaviour. There is also advice on working through an affair plus much more. My personal views are that the damage betrayal can cause to the relationship is basically once the trust has been strained and lost it is an uphill struggle. For the person thinking of straying and betraying their partner then my feelings would be why don’t they just get out of the relationship and cause them selves far less hassle in the long run, and if they don’t want to be committed to another then get out before you let someone or certain behaviours IN!
http://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/marriageclinic/infidelity/
Infidelity can cause pain and distress. Although everyone has different views on it, then unless you find your self in that situation I do feel it is hard to be 100% guaranteed on how you would feel.
The website I found has huge amounts of information on how to spot an affair, although after reading the article I can see how some people can ‘jump’ to incorrect conclusions regarding their partners behaviour. There is also advice on working through an affair plus much more. My personal views are that the damage betrayal can cause to the relationship is basically once the trust has been strained and lost it is an uphill struggle. For the person thinking of straying and betraying their partner then my feelings would be why don’t they just get out of the relationship and cause them selves far less hassle in the long run, and if they don’t want to be committed to another then get out before you let someone or certain behaviours IN!
http://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/marriageclinic/infidelity/
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After reading your post on Smoking I totally disagree with the view you have that the smoking ban is a ‘stupid idea’ it is already working in my view in that I have seen regular smokers taking less trips to the designated smoking areas and therefore smoking less, which is what the ban is wanting to achieve so gradually smokers decrease the amount of cigarettes they smoke and in turn will reduce the illness connected with smoking in the long term. Also if ‘smoking rooms’ were set up then that would surely divide smokers and none smokers in a negative way and be unsuccessful in trying to help people give up.
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